Visit to Caltagirone I've been invited by this couple to join them in Caltagirone many times. I'd always avoided them; they weren't very exciting to me, on a mental level. Then I thought emptying myself in a new hole would, after all, relax me. I set my terms: Both had to be available, they'd pay all my expenses, and I'd be free to use them as I pleased. Could it be clearer than that?